Relationship Of No Relations

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My universe, my world, my nation, my city, my religion, my society, my family, my child, my mother, my sister, my body, my hand.

Did you observe the gradation of my-ness increasing? This is how relationship grading happens in our life. We try to defend, protect, and fight for the closest first and then the next one.

If the closest relationship is in problems then it hurts us more and we are more reactive in that situation whether we can do anything or not but our anxiety, suffering, helplessness, desire to fight start taking shape at that moment.

If the same relationship causes little problems for us then it is capable of creating the highest suffering for us. It means the closeness of a relationship has something to the degree of our suffering.

If we don’t have or feel any relationships with X then we can defend ourselves better in the situation of verbal or physical attack.

Is it possible that people and the world exist around us but we don’t give any name to the relationship? For example a child, sister, mother, nation, city etc without any my-ness?

It will not harm you or excite you Unnecessarily. If required, you will do whatever needs to be done based on the situation and Dharma, which is coming from the existence and not from my-ness. A relationship does not end with what we do or can do. It goes to another end called expectations from others.

What more suffering is possible for a person, who has completely dissolved my-ness from the relationship with the world around? Who neither expects nor reject help from others? Who does what needs to be done. He does what he can do.

Many people think that this kind of person will become irresponsible and lazy? The answer to this is “you try” it for some time and do not debunk the concept or extrapolate which is coming out of pure imagination of yours.

There is no other hell in the world And no one is capable of creating any hell If you do what needs to be done and drop the name of relation and expectations from them.

People try to run away from other people and the world around Without dropping the name of the relation. With that kind of mind, no matter which Himalaya you go You are fully capable of creating your own hell.

O Chaitanya, what your experiences have unfolded for you in the world of relationships?

Hari Om Tat Sat Yours Truly Hari